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Self-delusion and salvation through works

Jacob’s story was a messed-up story; sibling rivalry, deceit, polygamy; and yet in Psalm 46 God refers to Himself as the God of Jacob

Psalm 46 v 10-11

He says, “Be still, and know that I am God;
I will be exalted among the nations,
I will be exalted in the earth.”

11 The Lord Almighty is with us;
the God of Jacob is our fortress.

Note in this Psalm that God refers to Himself, not only as the God of an imperfect man, but the same man that wrestles with God Genesis 32 v 22-32

There is our public persona and our private persona. I was having a conversation with a friend recently, a person of faith, and I proposed to him that we all have a degree of self-delusion within us. And that when asked to evaluate ourselves, we would all paint ourselves in a good light. I went on further (the friend is a divorcee) to suggest that, if I were to ask his ex-wife to say something about him, that she would paint a different picture. My friend of course mentioned that his ex-wife would be biased. But that was not the point, the point is we all see ourselves in a good light, while others see us in a different light. The point of all this is self-justification. We are all aware of what is acceptable in public, which is determined by the norms and values of the society. We are aware that nobody is perfect, so some Christians say and pretend publicly that nobody is perfect, but privately, especially Christians that believe in salvation as a result of their works, thinks, and  believe that they are perfect and justified before God, they are therefore intolerant of those they perceive as less than themselves, imperfect, sinners, or those that do not belong to their clique, group, sect, denomination, shared man-made or defined notion of “saved” ones or “Noah’s ark passengers”.

The pharisees (the teachers of the Law) came up with tenets, rules and regulation to supplement Gods precepts, and made it impossible for the ordinary folks to achieve perfection, after given the ordinary folks the impression that they had to have perfection. They themselves, in public gave a show of their piety, and perfection, their clothing and regalia indicated that they are white (pious), with symbols that indicated their rank which corresponds to how high they’ve climbed on the stairways to heaven. Matthew 15 v 1-13: Then some Pharisees and teachers of the law came to Jesus from Jerusalem and asked, 2 “Why do your disciples break the tradition of the elders? They don’t wash their hands before they eat!”

3 Jesus replied, “And why do you break the command of God for the sake of your tradition? 4 For God said, ‘Honour your father and mother’[a] and ‘Anyone who curses their father or mother is to be put to death.’[b] 5 But you say that if anyone declares that what might have been used to help their father or mother is ‘devoted to God,’ 6 they are not to ‘honour their father or mother’ with it. Thus, you nullify the word of God for the sake of your tradition. 7 You hypocrites! Isaiah was right when he prophesied about you:

8 “‘These people honour me with their lips,
but their hearts are far from me.
9 They worship me in vain;
their teachings are merely human rules.’[c]”

10 Jesus called the crowd to him and said, “Listen and understand.11 What goes into someone’s mouth does not defile them, but what comes out of their mouth, that is what defiles them.”

12 Then the disciples came to him and asked, “Do you know that the Pharisees were offended when they heard this?”

13 He replied, “Every plant that my heavenly Father has not planted will be pulled up by the roots. 14 Leave them; they are blind guides.[d] If the blind lead the blind, both will fall into a pit.”

 

However, throughout the scripture God has shown that, we His creation, are not perfect and in His plan, design and execution of the project Salvation, He has and continues to use us, as imperfect as we are, thieves, liars, murderers, adulterers, prostitutes, and so on, if we see ourselves as we truly are and accept our imperfections and weaknesses. The Lord detest the proud: Proverbs 16 v 5 The Lord detests all the proud of heart.
Be sure of this: They will not go unpunished.

When we see ourselves as we are and realise that God is made perfect in our weakness, 2 Corinthians 12 v 9; But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore, I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.

The cost of misplaced Anger and the presence of the Holy Spirit

When discussing a topic such as this, there are some advices in the scriptures that deal with it, but for me the most apt is in James 1 verses 19-20:

 “My dear brothers and sisters take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, 20because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires.”

Bearing this in mind, dealing with anger issues requires help from appropriate quarters.

Psalm 40 v 17

But as for me, I am poor and needy;
may the Lord think of me.
You are my help and my deliverer;
you are my God, do not delay.

The scriptures are also a source of the help we need, in dealing with anger issues, offering us practical tips for managing our emotions and behaviours that result in that major, sometimes unbridled emotion called anger. In Ephesians chapter 4 verses 26-31, Paul discusses these;

 “In your anger do not sin”[d]: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, 27 and do not give the devil a foothold. 28 Anyone who has been stealing must steal no longer, but must work, doing something useful with their own hands, that they may have something to share with those in need.

29 Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. 30 And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. 31 Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice.

 

Anger has a price tag. When you realize that truth, you’re more likely to control the anger in your life. The Bible tells us, “A hot-tempered man … gets into all kinds of trouble” (Proverbs 29:22 TLB). Most of us have seen someone do something really stupid because that person was angry. The Bible is very specific on the cost of anger. The Bible says:

  • It causes arguments (Proverbs 15:18; A hot-tempered person stirs up conflict,
    but the one who is patient calms a quarrel.), which can arise because of our losing control of our mouth or tongue, making us say harsh things, Proverbs 15 verse 1; A gentle answer turns away wrath,
    but a harsh word stirs up anger.
  • It causes mistakes (Proverbs 14:29;” Whoever is patient has great understanding,
    but one who is quick-tempered displays folly.”).
  • It causes foolish things (Proverbs 14:17; A quick-tempered person does foolish things,
    and the one who devises evil schemes is hated.).

Foolish things can be done by the wise as well as fools, but at the end of the day, the truly wise ones are distinguished, by what, Proverbs 29 verse 11 tells us; Fools give full vent to their rage,
but the wise bring calm in the end.

Calm or patience in the face of provocation, or suffering, or trials or persecution is a special, or difficult, maybe divine attribute, but that is what the scriptures advocate in Proverbs 19 verse 11; A person’s wisdom yields patience;
it is to one’s glory to overlook an offense.

We are constantly being moulded by life and experiences, and one quality that we should possess is perseverance in the face of provocation, adversity or persecution. As stated in Ecclesiastes 7 verse 9; Do not be quickly provoked in your spirit,
for anger resides in the lap of fools.

You’ve probably seen all of these results from your own anger and the anger of others. The Bible is also clear on the ultimate conclusion of our inappropriately expressed anger. Proverbs 11:29 says, “The fool who provokes his family to anger and resentment will finally have nothing worthwhile left.” Think of the impact anger has on your family. As parents, we’re often tempted to use anger to motivate our children. It works in the short-term. When you get angry, you put the fear of God (or the fear of you) into your children. Your kids may give you short-term obedience, but you’ll lose in the long-term. The end result of misplaced anger is alienation. The advice in Proverbs 22 v 24 in dealing with people with anger issues, is; “Do not make friends with a hot-tempered person,
do not associate with one easily angered,”. You alienate the very people you love the most. Eventually, you’ll get more anger back and finally just apathy. No one wants to be around you. The truth is, you always lose when you lose your temper. You may lose your reputation, your job, your children, or the love of your husband or wife when you don’t control your anger. And we might be tempted to think that so what, I have anger issues now and then, its no big deal, it is a big deal, because things and people get destroyed as a result of anger, our Lord Jesus Christ put it into perspective for us by levelling anger with murder on the scales of sin, in Matthew 5 v 22; But I tell you that anyone who is angry with a brother or sister[b][c] will be subject to judgment. Again, anyone who says to a brother or sister, ‘Raca,’[d] is answerable to the court. And anyone who says, ‘You fool!’ will be in danger of the fire of hell. And it’s never worth that price tag. We have to learn to control or rid ourselves of certain character attributes as advised in Colossians 3 verse 8; But now you must also rid yourselves of all such things as these: anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips. The Bible goes on further in Psalm 37 verses 8-9 “Refrain from anger and turn from wrath;
do not fret—it leads only to evil.
9 For those who are evil will be destroyed,
but those who hope in the Lord will inherit the land.”

  • What are some examples of people you’ve seen become alienated from others because of their anger?
  • If you’ve sometimes exhibited misplaced anger, what were the costs in your life?
  • What is a practical way you can deal with your anger so that it does not cause pain for you or the people around you?anger management 1

When you make idols, you end up like them

Everyone trusts in something. We can even make good things — like our children, our marriages, our families, or even our ministries in the church — into idols.

But trusting in things other than God can have devastating effects upon our lives. If we think who we’re with or what we do will make us totally fulfilled, we’re setting ourselves up for deep disappointment. The Bible reminds us of this in Jeremiah when he says, “Those who make idols are disillusioned” (Jeremiah 10:14 GNT).

But we do it all the time with our careers, relationships, and bank accounts. We act as if those created things give us meaning in life.

And when we do that, we’re just setting ourselves up for failure. The Bible says, “The poor, deluded fool … trusts something that can’t help him at all. Yet he cannot bring himself to ask: ‘Is this idol that I’m holding in my hand a lie?’” (Isaiah 44:20 NLT)

Oh, yes, those idols are lies. Sadly, idols don’t just stop after they’ve disappointed us, though. Eventually, they enslave us, too.

The Bible says, “Those who make idols end up like them. So does everyone who trusts them” (Psalm 115:8 GW). Whatever you value the most in life, you’re going to become like. If you value money, you’ll eventually become a materialist. If you value pleasure, you’ll become a hedonist. If you value works, you’ll become a pragmatist. If you value above all else Jesus Christ, you’ll become a Christian.

So if putting something else first in our lives warps us, why do we do it?

We want a god we can control. We want to be able to manage him. If we make money our god, we feel as if we can control it. If we make other people our gods, we set out to control them. It makes us feel better.

But we can’t control God. He says, “Don’t reduce me. Don’t try to fit me into your lifestyle. Don’t try to control me.

  • How have you seen other people set up idols in their lives that eventually dominated them?
  • How can even healthy things become idols in our lives?
  • What do you need to let go of your control of so that it is not an idol in your life?

Running like a champion

Hebrews 12 v 1-2

Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us, 2 fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith. For the joy set before him he endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.

We all have our own race to run.

Some of us are competitive. But we are not in competition with each other or against each other.

In our spiritual life, we are forever an athlete.

The Christian life is like running a race. The heroes of the past are watching us. They witness to us. The people in heaven are watching us here on earth. Those in heaven are praying for us. All of us are called to run a race. How to be a champion.

  • There is a purpose to pursue; salvation puts us in the race. You must be a citizen of heaven to take part in the race. We can not stop until the race is finished. We are not in competition with each other.
  • There is a person to prepare; that is, you. Things could slow us down, weigh us down. Sin does trip us up, weigh us down. Unbelieve comes out of the heart. Right shoes, right uniform are things that can prepare us. Good things become bad things when they keep you from achieving your goal. Everything could be lawful for me, but not everything could be good for me, expedient. Grace and peace be multiply unto you. There is an order of things in the Bible, God’s order. Repentance and faith in order. First repentance, then faith.
  • There is a price to pay; patience. Patience is weightier than endurance. If you posses it, it posses you.
  • There is a promise to keep, to plead; Jesus is the author and finisher of our faith. Jesus gives us faith. Faith comes by looking unto Jesus. We gain faith by looking unto Jesus.
  • There is a price to claim; Jesus endure the cross for you and me, for our salvation, to sit down on the right hand of the Father to plead our case. For us to receive the crown. A crown to lay at Jesus’s feet.

We are not saved by our works. We are saved by our Lord Jesus Christ. Believe in Him and you will be saved and shall not perish. Not an intellectual belief.  Not an emotional belief or feeling or expression. But from your heart.

Courage and the Christian who is the real Braveheart

Courage is doing things even when you’re scared. Being brave isn’t something that happens when you’re not scared anymore.

Brave people don’t stop hearing the whispers of fear. They hear the whispers but take action anyway. 

Being brave is hearing that voice of fear in your head, but saying, “Okay, but the truth is, God made me on purpose and for a purpose.”

The reason for being brave is to be found in 2 Timothy 1 v 8-9

We can only keep on going, after all, by the power of God, who first saved us and then called us to this holy work. We had nothing to do with it. It was all His idea, a gift prepared for us in Jesus long before we knew anything about it. But we know it now.
— 2 Timothy 1:8–9 MSG

God is the only thing that is absolute, sharing your story of Jesus Christ with others, takes guts. Seeing other people be brave makes me want to be brave too.

It is scary to be who you’re meant to be. It doesn’t feel easy because it’s not. But we were made for this. According to the scriptures in 2 Timothy 1 v 8-9, we have holy work. Why be brave? Because when we’re brave enough to share the God stories in our lives, it changes the people around us. It changes us to share them.

Be Brave: Think back on your day. Where can you see God working on your behalf? Or just showing up for you? Tell somebody. 

Excerpted with permission from 100 Days to Brave by Annie F. Downs, copyright Annie F. Downs.